Just Thoughts and Nothing Else

I sit and wonder sometimes when people speak of home! I believe that home to everyone is different. I believe that for some it is in the arms of another. I believe that for some it is the holding of your children in your arms. I believe for some it is a place. I believe that any place on earth is where Home is when you are comfortable and can be yourself!
You always need to feel that you can relax and be who you are first and foremost.....
If ever you can sit back and think about who you are, what you feel and how things in life affect you. You will be capable of finding your home.
When I ask people sometimes where is your home it is like I said, "Different for everyone"
For a child it is usually a place. As we mature and become adults and have children of our own it is many other things.
You may be in the home of your parents and yet every time you are there, the environment of that place doesn't make you comfortable. Is that your home? No. But you go to a friends house and you suddenly feel comfortable and you feel yourself and free. Is that your home? No. But with the friends house, it was only different because the person made you feel different. The person made you feel like you were home! Does this mean your parents weren't your home, probably yes if they were judgmental of you and found so many things about you that they criticized. When you are with a spouse and feel that you cannot be who you are, act how you like, and just be free, then your spouse is not really your home either.
When they say that home is where the heart is, to me it just means whatever makes my heart happy, that is where I am happy and where I can be me! Where I never have to be anyone else but me!
My friends can make me happy therefore that in a sense is a home to me. My children and grandchildren can make me happy so again, that in a sense is home to me. A love in my life that makes me happy and allows me to express and be myself again can make me happy and therefore is a home to me. The pride you feel in yourself makes you happy with who you are and therefore that is a home to me as well.

So in all of this, I feel that home to anyone is where you feel love, happiness, self respect, dignity, pride, and most of all, who you are and who you want to be.
Home may not be the same for all, but home is where your heart and happiness is......