“We cannot direct the wind but we can adjust the sails…”

I think its very natural to force something against nature. When things don’t go our way, the more natural tendency is to try and fight the tide. Try and stand as a wall in front of it. We tend to forget that there is Nature that will take its way. One can’t do anything about it.
There is a system that is running around us. The tides come in and go out. The wind changes direction. The earth shatters and volcanoes erupt. There are thunderstorms and hurricanes and tornadoes. There are enough things happening around us to at least realize that there is some Unseen Force that is making this world function with such precision.
In this world, there are things that will either go your way or will not go your way. Out of those things there are some things that you would have an influence on and some of them you wouldn’t.
My question. Why sweat over things which you have no control on? Things which are going to happen no matter what you do or don’t do. We tend to feel bad about things that happened because of something we did. We try to find logic out of things for which there is none and that is where we enter the zone of bringing ourselves down.
Here is the new strategy. Use nature to your advantage. If there is a forceful wind blowing against the direction that you want to go, use it well by just adjusting your sails and speeding your boat up. The best part about this analogy is that for a sailboat, you can actually use the wind to go in an opposite direction than the wind itself.
So when things don't happen your way. The wind is blowing in some other direction. If you look beyond the obvious. If you stay positive. You can actually find a way to sail through while utilizing the strong wind to your advantage.
Just adjust the sails and keep moving. The tides will change again and the wind shall start blowing in the direction you want. That is when you can motor your way ahead.

I am not the author of this but because life and times are tough, maybe it's a thought we should think about when times get rough.
This also says that I can share this on their home page so I am.

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