Just Thoughts and Nothing Else

I listened to a song that's been pretty popular by Carrie Underwood today and although I have heard and loved this song so much, I never stopped to think about it's meaning and how it can affect you and how sometimes it makes you think about what you've wasted in your life?

Have you wasted time starting a family? How about getting your career started? What about not making the time to say I'm sorry? What about staying in a loveless marriage? What about an abusive relationship? What about not saying I Love you to your mom and Dad, sisters and brothers, kids!??  Making the time to be with your friends, relatives?  What about never going on vacations because you don't have the time?  What about not making the time for simple pleasures in life, like a picnic in the middle of the week, or a train or bus ride just because?  How about the times you just didn't even take time for YOU!????
Maybe it's time you give this a little thought and understand that you, your feelings, and time,are very precious things and that if you feel it, you should say it, do it and feel it, as long as it doesn't hurt others.
Be who you are, trust what you feel, take charge of your life!
And always try to remember that when taking charge of the "Who,what,when,where,why and how" in your life, that what you do does affect others even if it's in some small way, but if you live a lie for just the sake of others, you will never be able to truly be the person that maybe you would be if there weren't so many things that keep you stifled or whole in your relationship. You will never be able to give to yourself the right to let your guard down or give 100% to a relationship, and therefore you've just lied to yourself!  A marriage or any kind of relationship takes work, trust, compassion, loyalty and honor between someone you love or even just with friends or children.  Just remember to judge your feelings with a healthy attitude so that you know you are not making the wrong choices out of selfishness, or a self centered attitude.  Make sure that you know what the consequences could be, so that you will not be choosing unwisely or with regrets.  Make sure that the choice you are making which could affect your life for a long time is not you blaming others for the choices you have made in your life.  Take responsibility for your part in the role you played in it.  Own it!

Maybe some things are just meant to be and therefore should!

So for all of you young girls,boys,women and men out there that think life will be perfect, think again, and  don't just accept things because you feel you must, accept things for how they make you feel, because you and your feelings really do know best!  Always take responsibility for your actions and know that the world doesn't revolve completely around you but that you are a very important part of it and you deserve goodness in your life!
Don't wait until you get old to realize that some of your decisions were not good ones just because you didn't take the time to think about them before you acted on them!  Make sure that you don't settle for anything less than what makes you feel right.....Sometimes if you do anything less than what is for the good of the whole, you will have those regrets and become defensive,bitter, and a non trusting person of others! 
So be true to yourself and your heart and in the end, life will be good to you.
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