Just Thoughts and Nothing Else

Cheaters are people who just don't care! They don't ever expect to be caught, and the ones that do just don't care.
Before people cheat, they should think about the consequences of their actions. They should be concerned about the diseases they could be spreading and they should be concerned about the hearts they are breaking!
They never think about the spouse of a cheater that might just go out and do the same thing to them and then they would be the ones saying "Why"??????
If more people would work on making their marriages work, or try to understand why they aren't, maybe these things wouldn't be happening. Maybe if people weren't always so busy thinking that they need their ego's stroked and worried about the kids at home or the fact that they did love their partner and would just go back in time a little when things were simpler, and love was new they would then see for themselves what they've done to contribute to this now terrible hurtful situation. How they stopped trying to make each other feel important.
It tears apart your self esteem, your dignity and the pride you once felt. It makes you think that your entire existence with this person has been a lie! You've been cheated out of an explanation and all you can get now is more lies, more hurts.
I say, "Cheaters need to be with only cheaters, and leave the innocent ones alone"!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stop hurting innocent children and spouses and only hurt each other because that's all you deserve or get some help to understand why you indulge yourself like a spoiled brat just to satisfy your ego'....